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No one likes to go to the doctor. It makes us nervous. We may be worried about our health, and the unfamiliar surroundings don’t help. We realize that our medical care is in the hands of someone else and we aren’t sure we trust everyone involved.

Even if we do trust the medical providers, we might still be anxious. We sit in the exam room, listen to what is happening outside the four walls and wait. We are alone with our concerns until the doctor walks in. We understand she is pressed for time so we try to cram everything we want addressed into a very short period of time, usually 7-15 minutes. We enter into a conversation with our doctor, are asked questions, report our symptoms and what is occurring with our health, become sidetracked and …bingo!..we forget the important questions we wanted to ask the doctor.

 Why?

 Stress interferes with our memory. It happens to all of us. It’s not uncommon to leave a doctor’s office and remember an important point of our visit that was not addressed. All because seeing a doctor about a medical issue is stressful.

If you prepare ahead of time, you’ll feel more confident and more empowered as a patient. It’s about taking charge of what you can. It’s not easy being a patient, and believe me, I’ve been a patient for a long time. For 16 months I had a severe chronic pain condition (lower abdominal pain) and ended up living each chapter of my new book, The Take-Charge Patient: How You Can Get the Best Medical Care. The journey was not an easy one. Ironically, six months into my interviews of over 200 physicians, nurses, other medical professionals and patients for my book, unrelenting pain forced me to use the strategies I’d developed and gleaned from my research. I saw 11 physicians of differing specialties, 3 alternative medicine practitioners, went through 15 procedures and tests and was prescribed 22 medications. I received 10 misdiagnoses. To say that I was discouraged, exhausted, depressed and disillusioned with medical care, is an understatement. But through my research, I found my own diagnosis and the surgeon to heal me. As it turned out I had a muscle tear in my C-section site with nerve involvement, an inguinal hernia with a nerve passing through the hole, and two belly-button hernias. Because hernias in women are rare, no medical provider I saw thought of it.

Tips to prepare for a successful doctor’s appointment:

1. Prepare a list of questions for your doctor. What do you want addressed in the office visit?

2,  Create a brief health summary that includes:

-your top three medical concerns

-your list of current medications and their dosages, over the counter medications, herbs and supplements

-any symptoms you’ve been having, when they occur, what makes them worse or better (for example: exercise or eating) and what you have tried for symptom relief.

-List any medical professionals you’ve seen for your current condition or for other conditions that pertain to your visit.

3.  Prior to your appointment, obtain copies of any test results and reports that were done by other physicians. Bring these copies with you. Never rely on a doctor’s office to send them as medical offices are very busy and your request can be easily overlooked.

4. If you are seeing this doctor for the first time, create a brief health history including major medical events such as surgeries, serious illnesses, medical conditions and more.

Preparing in this way will allow your doctor to view your entire medical picture. This saves time and prevents you or the doctor from lassoing the information from other doctors or your pharmacist. Putting it together also familiarizes you with what is happening with you medically, where you’ve been, whom you’ve seen, and what medications you are taking.

This is about being in charge of you as a patient. And taking some of the control eases anxiety, and increases self-confidence.

Written by – Martine Ehrenclou, M.A. Patient advocate, patient and award-winning author of The Take-Charge Patient and Critical Conditions.

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Rare Disease Day 2012

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How do you find the individuals who truly understand the disease you live with?  Imagine a disease so rare that you are one in a million or possibly one in five million?  It’s certainly not like having diabetes or breast cancer; unfortunately these connections are easy to come by.  On the flip side, rare diseases come in many forms; there are roughly 5,000 – 8,000 known throughout the world.  Many of these rare diseases are difficult to spell, pronounce and even treat let alone understand well enough to share the details with those who don’t have them.  In this scenario, the need to find someone who is “just like you” is vital to your peace of mind, well-being and ability to relate to others for encouragement and support.  This is a goal often difficult to achieve and can prove challenging.

Rare diseases affect so few people that they are often referred to as “orphan diseases”.  There are some diseases that are truly one-of-a-kind and usually happening because of a genetic defect, it can be difficult to find the support you need to feel better in your disease; connecting through shared symptoms and treatment insight can provide perspective on what might be misdiagnosed, undiagnosed, and incurable providing the encouragement you need in a world of isolation.

Social networking can assist an individual in finding that connection (needle in the hay stack) of rare diseases.   As a result of living with a rare disease, there are fewer medical professionals with a focus on these medical conditions and often fewer proven treatment options to consider.  Learning how others are living with a rare disease and their treatment approach is invaluable.  Preserving your anonymity and protecting your privacy is also important in meeting this need. Treatment Diaries is a great way to find people who understand.

Actual TreatmentDiaries passages:

“It is so frustrating when you KNOW you’re sick and the doctors just want to “pick” a diagnosis so they can get you out of wherever you are and on your way. In all fairness to them, I do think they mean well, for the most part. My GI wants to pin IBS on me because he can’t find anything else even though I have tons of esophagitis, white plaque coating the esophagus and severe gastritis, not to mention it feels like someone is putting a curling iron into my large intestine and trying to curl it…maybe I have a rare disease!” EDM

“I disguise my disease very well. I smile, I laugh, I cry every day! I try to enjoy my life as much as I can. But sometimes I feel overloaded and frustrated with my body, with my health and with the crazy mix up way that this disease and I get along. The disease usually wins out in the end, but I want to fight!” TAC

Would you like help adjusting to living with a rare disease?  People, friends and family mean well and want to offer sympathy through words like, “I know what you’re going through.” In actuality, the only people who can really relate are people who are dealing with the same disease or one like it. They can offer insight for dealing with symptoms, experience with specialists, advice for preventing complications, and most of all, an encouraging ear from someone who really understands. You may just need to vent, or you may need more in the way of communication with others and access to resources.

Do you have a rare disease or know of someone who does?  TreatmentDiaries can make a difference in a life affected by illness.  Isolation is no longer the only option. Users from around the world care about personal struggles with rare diseases and the conditions which consume your days.  Find someone just like you at www.treatmentdiaries.com and start feeling well in your illness.

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